Going and Coming: Life
A visit to the doctor reminds me of how fragile life is. I’m well. But I get to see a lot of not-well people. And right now experiencing some un-wellness in my immediate family. Along with new birth. I guess I’ve begun to get it, now that I am 6 decades old: life goes on. I can scream and yell and protest its passing, but it still goes on as if I never said anything.
I guess that’s why writing has become so important to me. Taking stories from real life and weaving them into other worlds is what we do as writers. And we take the pain, the emotions, from those life events, and use them. I blogged today about Editing Woes over at RRR, and one of my points was that the reader reads for the emotions in the story, the emotions of the characters, the love scenes, not just the description of what went on and who did what to whom.
We are cheering Ethan’s birth and how strong he is, while we are saying goodbye to my dad, who has lived a wonderful life, and been the best dad a girl could ever want. Good time to remind myself it’s not all about me, but the people around me. My job is to feel. Sometimes I run away from my feelings because they are just too much to handle. But my job is to feel, and then write them down.
We don’t get do-overs like some of our characters get in our stories. Actually, that would make an interesting story concept. Life is not permanent. Neither are feelings. What we do about it is. We love babies because we know we are only going to be around long enough to perhaps see them get married and perhaps have children and grandchildren of their own. These little ones, in the beginning of their lives, will know us, the older ones, at the end of our lives. We each get to discover what the world is like before or after the loved one has been born, or passes on.
It’s a pea soup kind of day here in Sonoma County, which is good for the grapes. This misty fog means I can be a bit lazy with my watering, I’m tempted to make a fire, but know my house will heat up like a firecracker soon enough. My hubby is away getting inspiration from a mastermind meeting, and I anticipate seeing lots of friends at the Silicon Valley Romance Writers meeting tomorrow, where I will be a panelist and hopefully will give some nuggets of things I’ve learned along the way.
Book sales are going well. Accidental SEAL has been in the top 100 for Amazon Kindle paid sales for 9 weeks in a row and made some serious money. Over 13,000 people downloaded Honeymoon Bite on a free promotional 4 day blog, and it shot to #1 for Fantasy Romance for 3 days in a row. Same thing happened in June for Heavenly Lover. So, despite the occasional stinker review (which doesn’t affect sales at all) people are liking my books. I don’t go trolling for the 300+ reviews like some do. I have a problem with faking things to look like they aren’t. Just being honest and taking my lumps as they come. And writing is the best cure for anything that ills me. Anything.
My family is safe for now. Prayers go out to those that have suffered with loss of life: the SEALs and other military men and women who have made the ultimate sacrifice recently, and all their families who proudly bear the mourning. The people who have lost their life in senseless acts of violence, and their families. My shock and dismay at the truth being distorted so much in our political campaigns, and all the hate it spews. How people fall like lemmings after slogans and catch phrases like “war on women” when we have more opportunity here than anywhere else in the world. And people have died to make sure it stays that way. I was thinking we were going to take the higher road this election season. I was wrong.
So I guess with this theme of what I have and don’t have, in the going and the passing of life, what I’m feeling today is being connected.
And that’s a good thing.
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((Sharon)) Loved the editing post. Jefferson and Adams had mud slinging the likes of which we've yet to see. 🙂 I'm learning to do my homework and find out what's true and what isn't and laugh at some of the outrageous claims. We've had rain here, and I've actually been cold, in August, in the Valley of the Sun. 8*0
Judy, LOL, that's right. And my husband's relative, Alexander Hamilton, got caught up in the fray and died in a duel, too. Defending an honor from a lie said to irritate. But cost him his life.
I guess as I say goodbye to my dad, the mud slinging doesn't seem as important, and I'm having some much-needed laughs too. Thank God we live in a free country!
You know what matters. The rest is distractions. Laughter is precious gift. And amen to thank God we live in a free country.
🙂 Agree completely. Amen.
Hugs and chocolate,
Thanks, Shelly. I'm glad you're here today.
Thanks for sharing your heart. It made me think about the importance of family and the short time we have with them.
Jenn, you are so right. We never know how much time we all have. Thanks for stopping by.
Amazing post, Sharon. The bitter and the sweet. I'm happy for you and sad for you. You're such a strong person.
Thanks, Julia. Coming from you, it means a lot.
All we really have is this moment. That's where the magic is. Let's value it like there is no tomorrow. Xoxoxo
It's the little things in life and the magic of the moment that counts. Waving all the best